The response to "Bringing Out the Flirt in You"

After reading this essay "Binging out the Flirt in You", I think that some thoughts from this essay are adapted to my imagination. I divided this essay into three parts, that'll be easy to understand. So I will   express my opinions in 3 different aspects.

Paragraph1-2:It's a very subtle and sensitive topic:flirting with someone. Before falling in love or being in love, there are several cues to attract the opposite sex, like eye contact and verbal cues, etc. The author compares the lion and peacock's flirt with human's, that make the passage more vivid, I mean...easy to understand.As the society steps moves more and more fast, nobody will have so much time to find out the qualities inside one's heart, people are more focus on other's physical appearance and physical mannerisms.And this is where human's flirt is different from animal's.

Paragraph3-10:This part introduces some effective tools about flirting with somebody. There are 3 leaving me a deep impression.
1、EYE CONTACT:When you stare at somebody, it will show your politeness and deliver a sexual signal to someone who talks to you. Eyes are the windows of heart, so your eyes will express your thoughts in a way.
2、SELECT A LOCATION THAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU:As we all know,the environment will influence the emotions.In my opinion, I don't like the place where there is so much noise.I prefer more quiet and elegant place.The interests between both sides are vital.
3、BEHAVE WITHIN SOCIAL BOUNDS:Even though flirting with somebody is not a bad thing, we must master the scale wherever and whenever. Once you beyond the scale, you'll be thought not serious and shallow. So I think we should not ask so many personal things about others when you are not familiar so much with others.

Paragraph11-12：We should focus on self-confidence, qualities and personality rather than appearance.Because beautiful appearance will turn old some day in the future,but beautiful will not. Only if we build up our abilities and improve our living & learning skills, can we become the shining person who can catch other's eyes easily.